So you’re waiting for a guy to ask you to prom… and waiting… and waiting… and he just doesn’t do it. What’s wrong with him? He’s probably just shy, or maybe he doesn’t know how you feel about it. Well, guess what? There’s nothing wrong with you taking matters into your own hands and asking him out yourself. Sure, it might seem odd at first, but at least you’ll get it out in the open and you’ll finally have a date.
Now that you’ve decided you’re going to ask him out, what’s the best way to do it? Well that depends on your personality type. You can just stroll on up to him and ask him in person, you can call him on the phone, you can write him a poem, or you can try one of the many unique ideas listed above. The key here is to be open and honest, and express your feelings well. Try not to be embarrassed and don’t control the conversation. Just wait and see what his response is. The last thing you want to do is talk him out of it before he even has a chance to answer for himself!
But what if he says no? It’s not the end of the world, and hey, now you know how he feels. Make sure you thank him anyway, get your emotions together, and let’s move on to the next guy.
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Q. I asked out two guys to prom and they both said no. I still don’t have a date, so now what do I do?
A. Don’t despair! You just need to explore some alternatives. First you should tell all of your friends that you still need a date. Maybe one of them has a guy friend, a brother, or a cousin who is still free! They can also help you spread the word. If that doesn’t work, you should try to meet more guys. Join a club, take up a new activity, or head to some parties with friends. Keep mentioning that prom is coming up and you’re just dying to go. Someone’s bound to take the hint and ask you! If you’re getting down to the wire, you may just want to lower your standards a little and go with the guy who has a crush on you that you’ve been avoiding. Just make sure he knows that you’re going just as friends, and have a good time. Your last option is to go stag or with a group of friends, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
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There’s this guy I like I haven’t known him very long (like 2 or 3 months), but he’s so kind and sweet. We talk and mock each other jokingly. I’m noy sure if he knows how I feel and if he feels the same. He doesnt go to my school and I only see him a few times a week and he’s always with his mates. My friends are getting anoyed at me for talking about him all the time. But how do I ask him to prom?!